Professional connections and public relations in Early Childhood

Saturday, September 26, 2015

Stress's in Early Childhood and how they affect growth and development

Poverty is the stressor I chose to expand on further. My mother who is now in her 70’s grew up in North Georgia in a poor community. Her mother was an alcoholic and her father was a boot legger. Neither one of her parents worked a regular job for very long therefore the children went without during the most important stages of development. Her and her brother would forage for food; she even ate dirt when she was really hungry. Due to the poverty she has experienced hunger, racism, violence, and isolation.
As a small child she thought this was normal so her self-identity was not affected until she had to go to school and she was exposed to people who were not in poverty. That was when she realized she was not the same as other children. She was constantly in the fight or flight stage if she was around her mother so she chose to spend most of her waking hours outside.
She never received dental care so her teeth were very bad and hurt most of the time. At the age of 17 she had all of her remaining teeth pulled and got dentures. She dropped out of school at the age of 12 and got a job working in a truck stop, married my father and entered another alcoholic abusive relationship, but my father worked and she didn’t go hungry so she believed that was the way people were or that she was at fault somehow.
My mother is self-educated. She loves to read and when we were young children she would help us do our homework by teaching herself from our text books. My mother coped with her situation by escaping from reality in nature. At the age of 4 her brother was born so she had something to focus her attention on; helping him thrive and survive. She was his primary caregiver during his formative years and she ensured he received food and protection; even if it required her to put herself at risk.  
The area in our country that I would like to know more about is the Appalachian region of Alabama, Kentucky, Tennessee, Virginia, and West Virginia. The Appalachian Regional Commission (ARC) reports on Appalachian statistics such as poverty, income, and employment. According to their 2007-2011 report, poverty rates across the US was 14.3% compared to 16.1% in the Appalachian region of Alabama, Kentucky, Tennessee, Virginia, and West Virginia. Even within these states there is quite a difference between poverty rates. For example, in Virginia the statewide rate is 10.7% versus an 18.1% rate for the Appalachian region. The state with the worst poverty rate in the region is Kentucky with a 24.8% rate versus 18.1% rate for the rest of the state. (http://www.fahe.org/appalachian-poverty/)
The kind of stressors that impact the development of children in this region are the same stressors my mother faced as a child; poverty, isolation, lack of health care, physical abuse and neglect. The federal government and local governmental agencies are trying to combat the effects of these stressors by:
Spreading the Word: Tell your friends, family, and coworkers about Appalachia and Fahe.
 Donating: A donation with Fahe goes a long way. They have worked in Appalachia for over 30 years and they know where to place your money where it will do the most good.
  Investing: You can earn a competitive return and help those less fortunate. They have a 100% repayment track record to ever investor in our history.
Volunteering: Come out and help, meet the people, and let the experience change your life and theirs for the better.
Resources:
Almost Heaven Habitat for Humanity – WV http://almostheavenhabitat.org/
Appalachia Service Project (ASP)– TN/KY www.asphome.org
Bell-Whitley Community Action Agency – KY www.bell-whitley.org
Christian Appalachian Project (CAP)– KY www.christianapp.org
Christian Outreach to Appalachian People (COAP)– KY http://www.coap.faithweb.com/organ.html
Clinch-Powell RC&D – TN www.clinchpowell.net
Hale Empowerment and Revitalization Org(HERO) –AL www.herohousing.com
HOMES – KY http://www.homeseky.com/
Housing Development Alliance – KY – http://www.housingdevelopmentalliance.org/
Kingsport Housing and Redevelopment Authority – TN www.kingsporthousing.org
Knoxville Leadership Foundation – TN www.klf.org
People Inc – VA – www.peopleinc.net
People’s Self Help Housing – KY www.pshhinc.org
Religious Coalition for Community Renewal – WV – www.rccr.org
Southeast Rural Community Assistance Project – VA – www.sercap.org
Southern Appalachian Labor Schools – WV www.sals.info

Woodlands Development Group – WV www.wdgwv.org

4 comments:

  1. Wow! It sounds like you have been through a lot in your life. I am so proud and happy for you that you are getting your MASTERS!!! What an accomplishment. I work with low-income families daily and am always told in training that the lower income population begins school at a disadvantage and will rarely seek higher education. I always tell my families if they work hard and put their mind to it they can do anything. Thank you for sharing your story!

    Jessica Arnold

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  2. Hi Susan,

    Thanks so much for sharing your story. It really interested me when you spoke about how your mother thought that her childhood was "normal" until she entered public school. This is a pattern I see with my own family as well; I chose to write about my young nephew, who's parents both struggle with addiction. He has grown up in a very negative environment, and because of that, he thinks certain inappropriate behaviors are normal. This is something that, now that he is in our care, we are trying to counteract. Kudos to you and your mother for continuing to work hard despite challenging circumstances!

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    1. Hello Susan,
      Wow!!! I enjoyed reading your blog this week. I am amazed about your mom story and how strong she was to fight through her situations growing up. I am sure you follow in her foot steps of being a strong woman to yor children just like she was to you and your brother.
      Thanks for sharing!!
      Vonecia West

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  3. Hello,
    I really enjoyed reading your post about how all those stress factors effected your mother as a child. It is amazing that she made it trough all the trails and tribulations. As African Americans when we look at our parents and grandparents and see what they had to face with experiencing racism it just allows me to be thankful that we are able to have the right that we have today. With all the racism as a child Iv couldn't imagine how they held up. I guess it was normal to them because it was so common. When we look at poverty today, and see how many households are affected by poverty it is sad. Today there are so many resources and programs that help families become self sufficient and obtain health care. Early childhood programs is one program that provides parents and children with tool and resources to learn and have equal opportunities.

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